Instead of seeing my title and youth as positive and unique, I'd been letting them make me feel inferior, childish, and undeserving. I know this forsure but women dont take guys who look young seriously and more often than not wont even give you the time of day to even get to know them. People are so condescending Weird how a baby face necessitates an equally immature nickname in some peoples' heads. Our lives are basically about facing that tragedy. One of the major factors in my final purchase was that the salesman treated me like an adult from the beginning. Im still a puppy when it comes to women and dating.
You know, a little on the sides. It still sometimes takes you by surprise. Most interviews the employer asks me if it's my parents address I have listed. This way they understand im no young kid from the get go. One policeman even went on to check whether my drivers license was not fake as that was more plausible than me just looking too young for my age.
I have about 15 years experience in industry, with a strong record of progressive promotions due to a lot of hard work and some shrewd career choices. And I mean 1, nothing even comes remotely close to this. They want a man who looks like a man, manly shoulders, manly facial features nice nose, good jaw bone structure, etc , built shoulders, nice chest. Not that I want to purchase cigarettes, but dammit, it would be nice to be able to without getting interrogated about my age. Be confident and don't make a big deal out of it. I clearly wasn't in the midst of hatching a diabolical plan to perpetrate some underage party rage.
And if you look younger than you are, you'll constantly worry about pulling that off. You're the only one who cares. We both got a good laugh. I mean, I guess guys care more. Instead of letting people who are assholes change the way you think about yourself change the way you look at people who like to hurt and realize they are sad people who you wouldn't want in your life.
Not the worst problem to have. Dating someone who looks your actual age or older It doesn't help that I'm also vertically challenged. I want a full head of hair, little to no gray and a youngish face and body. After graduating college, I spent a year of grad school as a teaching assistant, teaching one section of a first-year composition course each semester. Sure, if pressed, your friends and family might admit that you probably look a little young, but it's never something they really noticed. Edit2: I'm not good at giving advice, I'm even worse at applying it to my own life. For someone like me, though, you never walk out the door satisfied that you've done enough.
By that I mean embrace who you are. Try to take rejection in stride and keep putting yourself out there. Well, turns out it's true. We'll leave it at that. Aside from the standard advice to rely on examples, re-frame weaknesses as strengths, and hit all the relevant pain points of the interviewer s , what can I do to push aside the age issue? Also, dressing professionally might help you a lot.
Being the only guy who never had a relationship among my friends really makes me depressed and feel lonely inside. I just look like one. You're not the only single 29 year old that doesn't have a gf so there are other things that cause women to loose interest. I'm unemployed and am afraid to look for job since I developed this constant fear that no-one will take me seriously or even employ me because of my looks. Actually, you should be doing that with kids and teenagers too, so just, like, check your life, Touchy McToucherson. I may not be Meryl Streep wearing her sky-high stilettos, but I'm managing to walk just fine in mine.
The whole thing is a fantastic mystery so all we can do is appreciate each moment. If you walk in and look like you should be in junior high, you're not going to command automatic respect. And they're probably telling the truth. Wearing uncomfortable shoes A tiny heel goes a long way in upping the adult ante. The lady at the desk just gave me one of those looks and asked how old I was. And like an adolescent superhero, he wanted to use that power to help others. Seeing this word repeated across so many profiles only goes to indicate what women like in terms of appearance.